I took some photos so i can explain it better:
http://i1272.photobucket.com/albums/y396/Adrian701/IMG_0134_zps7bb973ee.jpg
In this one i found the circled hose being off, and im uncertain what the black box it came from is..
http://i1272.photobucket.com/albums/y396/Adrian701/IMG_0137_zpsea39cd84.jpg
Where im pointing on this, there is a mixture of water and something else overflowing just to the rim of that larger hose, but the hose loops around to that pulley from the left of my hand (water pump?)
http://i1272.photobucket.com/albums/y396/Adrian701/IMG_0133_zpsc99e6ba4.jpg
And in this one, you can see the AFM bracket mount is snapped (previous owner tried to super glue it -.-) the right hand side bolt on the pod filter just pulls out so its not vulcanized in the rubber anymore and the left one is not far from it too, and that F*** off bracket is completely been made wrong side it dosent even bolt on, thats no problem since i can make a new one myself
i have also tightened all my head cover bolts, since they all seem to have atleast another turn to them.. the furtherest ones so closest to the windscreen seem like they have been leaking over the time very slowly
the ECU is stock im pretty certain, and uncertain of the boost i ran my fingers across all the piping and i cant see or feel for any damage/leaks
thanks for all the help again!