In this case, the RAW will not be penalised, you will be penalised as its your car that will be exported or destroyed. What i reckon is stay with what the RAW is saying till you reckon they are lying, then speak with dotars to change RAWS and Consumer affairs to get your money back.
In my opinion if you get to this point you should only try to get the money from the RAW not the broker, as the broker was only trying to help with compliance back then and has no influence on what the RAW is doing.