I have seen/been in a few cars running WALBRO pumps. One of those has been running a WALBRO for over 2 years with no issues or signs of failure. It is also making over 200rwkw, and has been for the period of time the fuel pump has been installed.
Also from what I have red in the forced induction section "turbo upgrades for RB20/25" many people are using WALBRO pumps and making well over 200rwkw.
However, I am reading mixed responses from people such as your self who say they have witnessed plenty of WALBRO failures, and then from others like 'THE MAFIA' who say WALBRO's are fine, I am running 300rwkw on one.
There is too much controversy for me to now agree/disagree that WALBRO's are good/bad now, but I am going off personal experience. I know now I will not be going with a WALBRO pump, as an item should not have so much mixed responses. It is either good or its not. It is telling me that either the quality of the pump is not consistent or it's just the luck of the draw, some fail some don't?
As for BOSCH 040, I have run 3 of them in 3 different cars with no issues but like you said, have also heard about them failing...
Now that you mention it, I haven't heard of a single TOMEI/NISMO pump failing, why? I don't know... However, it seems like they are doing something right.
All my recommendations/opinions are based on personal experience or from what I have read, so that is why I was recommending the WALBRO pump.