I have not been clear enough..
i wired up a 12v relay to my car about 2 months ago - i have 2 wires connected DIRECTLY to the battery for power and earth and use the stock power feed to trigger the relay.
So the pumps get full 12v from big wires connected directly to the battery!
there are no power issues here. the issue is only there after an hour of driving.... so yeah
will find try a few things over the next two weeks before i boost her up to 25psi