My guess is that you may have accidently over tightned the bolts holding down the retainers when you fixed it previously, or possibly mismatched the retainers. Each retainer is numbered in order and also must go the correct way up, the nissan service manual will then state the correct torque settings for each bolt, and the order in which they must be done up.
I would say its unlikely the valves have sustained any damage yet. Your best bet would be to pick up a set of second hand gtr cams, the best place to source them is most likley here off the for sale forums as people upgrade cams frequently. Once you have done that take the head in to a specialist to have them check all the tolerances out and pressure test whilst your there, if you do go this way get the stem seals replaced whilst your at it, and get a price on a valve regrind.
That's a pretty big job but as it involves removing the head obviously, so you could get away with simply fitting another second hand exhaust cam and check all the retainers and torque settings are correct. Make sure you use cam assembly lube, then turn the motor over by hand to begin with and make sure it does not lock up at any stage. Then again before starting remove the CAS connector, and perform a compression test on the motor by using the starter motor.
Compare this comp test with the factory settings to know if you have possible valve damage, then you have no choice but to remove the head. Remember with both cam's torqued down you should be able to move both intake and exhaust cam wheels by hand, not too much but as you will make contact with the piston crowns if the head is still torqued down, if you cant move the cams slowly in either direction is not right.