Leigh,
I bought my OE Replacment 100k service kit, exhaust manifold gasket + stud kit from Kudos, defintely recommend them.
As for clutch, I'd replace them along with turbos - the less time the R spends in shop, more time you can giggle like girl every time it hits boost.
About Apple Peel meet, I may swing by seeing I'll be living close to the area.
Cheers
Grant