I'm with you, build something that will race all day, drive home and then back again for more. Working on breakages (plus their associated costs) sucks hard. My GTR is now getting to the point where it is fairly reliable *touches wood* and I've done 4 track days in a row without anything done apart from regular maintenance.
I believe it's more sensible to run the engine within it's limits rather than saying I need a forged bottom end. My motor with a stock bottom end has been running 450rwkw at the track for around 18 months now and I track it around once a month. Put on a good balancer, billet gears, sump extension and a good catch can with breathers/drains to the sump and you're laughing. Stock bottom end is strong enough for more power than you're ever going to need at the track.
Keep the RPM below 7500 (I try and change at 7000 but sometimes get up to 7500) and don't smash limiter or punch gears and you should have a fairly reliable car.