oil pressure will drop with thinner oil. people have used thin oil then used something like motul 15-40 and have noticed the oil pressure increase in all rev ranges, so yes, using a thinner oil will effect oil pressure.
increasing the volume of oil wont effect oil pressure. i've heard that over filling the oil in the 32 gtr's helps prevent the bearing spinning problem (dont quote me on that. if its gonna go, its gonna go!). just dont over fill it too much as it might create air pockets from the crank hitting the oil in the sump at a steeper angle. your pick-up could then 'suck in' a bit of air then cause you to spin a bearing.
my oil used to get pretty dark, though since the rebuild it doesnt get as dark, more of a browny colour. what i suggest is getting a compression and leakdown test done, that will tell you if its burnt fuel leaking past your rings into the oil (caused by worn rings), or if you just need to flush your motor.
to flush your motor get around 2-3 bottles of some decent oil. it doesnt have to be crash hot, just nothing too shitty (at the very least a semi-synthetic). also get some decent oil you plan to run for the next 5000km as well as a new oil filter.
- drain the old oil.
- pour the flushing oil in then take it for a good 10-20min drive (you should do it for 40-50km, but im impatient).
- repeat this till the oil comes out clean.
- replace your oil filter and then fill with your good oil.