UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE.!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So as i think i mention the travel of the flapper was stuff all yes. I manage to get a 10mm dump spacer. Which i had to port anyway because it had way to much meat on it, So I ported until it match perfect with gaskets and housing. Slapped it together and i can now flog 3rd and 4th and the boost not only does not move, it drops off at the top (only a little).
So the flapper was fouling on the dump, spaced it out so it doesnt hit and works like a charm. I must also add there is no divider in the spacer so gases can kinda swap and choose its outlet path (thought it would be a issue) but works fine,
Thanks for the dump pipe hit
As for going external wastegate. Yes Highly recommend, but it is a bit tight on a low mount setup (yes i know its been done before). If you can do the whole high mount, FFP ect. ect. go for it as many manifolds are made for high mount to suit external gate. All about budget a commitment