FWIW my 120,000km old turbos let go at 13.5 psi on a very conservative tune. Factory turbo replacement interval is 100,000km and that's standard setup. Get the turbos changed now, the other stuff can wait until whenever you like.
New garrets will cost around $2600 for the pair - no need to go second hand. I'd guess installation would be at least $500, maybe a bit more. Do o2s at the same time, and if you're ever going to do the dumps do it at the same time.