I'm with you here man.
I've been monitoring this from post one and I'm surprised to see the comments go this far. I don't know whether the Mod is on holiday or not but if people were sandbagging an ethnic group or a religious faction, this would have come to a halt pretty damn quick.
It's getting as bad as NissanSilvia.com with their flaming and abusive tendencies towards newbies asking first time questions. They think they're better than others because they have a bit of experience.
Guys, so what if she's going to be making a big financial mistake. It's her money and if she loses a shitload, then it's her fault for not taking the advice of the knowledgeable people giving it.
I'm sure there's a few who have gone the wrong way with a modification and paid the price for the direction that they took, but you learn from that mistake, pick yourself up and stride forward.
If a guy was to do the same thing and asked for advice I'm sure that the pathetic remarks made by some in this thread would not have come to bear.
You're no better than some bigot calling an Asian a gook and there are many of them on this site, go ahead and try, see how far that comment gets you.
I pity the girl. This is not the sort of message we should be sending out in this day and age.
You can shoot me down for making my comments, but in the end I know I'm a better person for accepting the girl for a human being, not as my own personal dart board.