I did read your post, a few times actually.
Done. Followed this step. [Negative probe should be on the cars chassis.
Positive on the wire.]
Did this partially.. now that im reading this over, i only unplugged the LED lights. [Start as said above by unplugging everything (unplug the lights, and switches.]
When you are talking about the switch, you're talking about the knob thing on the right side in the drivers seat right? If so, i need to take that apart? [Now at the switch, there is a wire from the fuse, to the switch, so out your positive on that terminal. It should read open circuit. If it reads something, especially a stupid low value, the short is somewhere between the fuse and the switch.]
At this point are you referring to the connector by the headlights? [If that's fine, now put the positive probe on the wire that goes to the headlight (at the switch plug). If it reads stupid low, the fault is from the switch, to the headlight.]
Did this. I can confirm that the LED lights aren't the issue [Another quick test, is take the whole LED light setup from the left, and plug it into the right side, does it still blow the fuse? If you put the right hand side led light setup on the left hand side wiring, does the left hand side wiring now blow?
If the blowing fuse swaps from right to left doing this, your LED lights are the issue.]