Cheap local exhaust shop 3" exhausst dont sound that bad either, just gotta get a good muffler. I had a mandrel bent 3" cat with a 3" pipe through it and a really big bodied junbl muffler. Not the best system in the world but it performed and sounded really nice, a little bit droney around 2k but another resonator would have fixed that up.
I think the biggest factor to sound is how many bends, what muffler and what resonator if it has one. I've heard stainless sounds different to mild steel as well.
I never had much success, I recommend going on a skyline cruise and get ahead and watch everyone drive by. Then ask the owner what system they have