I'll preface this by saying I've not driven a HICAS-equipped car on the track and every post I read seems to have a different opinion of how it works, but if the HICAS is acting to help turnin (ie opposite turn to front wheels, oversteer) I can see how the tank-slapper happens. If it's acting to create understeer (same direction as front wheels) this should actually help pull the car out of a slide.
I've heard claims of R32 GTRs basically throwing people into the sand trap because of HICAS, so maybe what you're saying about the 32GTR being more rear dominant is true (yet, it MUST be quicker.. otherwise why would they do it that way?).
Which leaves me with my S2 GTS-t, I think I'll be leaving HICAS alone if it makes the car feel more stable when you're doing "80%" driving.. because I'm sure as shit not going harder than that on the road!!