Dale, I think the only person who got offended was you.. if you're trying to get a point across, explain yourself clearly using neutral language.
Also by the sounds of things, some clearing up in your head was required before you knew what it was that bothered you - if you don't know what you think, how can you expect us to? Might help if you clear your head first, then figure out why something bothers you, then open your mouth. You will learn though, that if things annoy you it's far, far easier to just ignore them. Case in point - you've done yourself no favours by having a bitch about it. Lots of things are annoying in life, and if you learn to deal with it without a fuss you'll have a much easier time of things.