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3 pin powerfc (any version, djetro, ljetro, pro, ap engineering) is for car that does have an ECU controlled boost solenoid from factory
ie ECR33 has dual staged boost where the ECU switches ground on pin 25 to "run" the stock solenoid
the apexi kit gives you a new solenoid to use (which runs on pin 25) and a map sensor loom, and map sensor. the map sensor loom connects to the 3 pin socket
5 pin powerfc (any version, djetro, ljetro, pro, ap engineering) is for car that does NOT have an ECU controlled boost solenoid from factory
ie EJ20 (not sure if it does or not sorry)
where it does not have an ECU controlled factory boost solenoid and boost is controlled by wastegate spring
the apexi kit gives you a new solenoid to use, a solenoid loom, a map sensor loom and a map sensor. the solenoid loom connects to the 5 pin socket and the map sensor loom connects into the solenoid loom.
the 3 pins are ground, power and signal (map sensor signal)
the 5 pins are ground, power and signal (for the map sensor) and power, ground (for the solenoid)