I wouldnt worry too much about the crank being eaten away by the seal. You could fit speedy sleeves over the surfaces, but they are about $75 each. If its only a track car, its not going to leak that much oil anyway. Just reuse the metal head gasket, using some coppercote spray. I would just get a set of rb25 head bolts or studs if you want to get fancy. Dont even attempt to redrill and tap the head bolt holes yourself.welsh plug is about $2 try an Auto One, but ive found the cheapest place to get seals is a bearing shop like CBC. Oil restristor can be cheaply made from a MIG welding tip. Just buy one with a hole the right size, about $5.
What oil pump are you going to run? I would be tempted to use the standard rb30 onw, as they dont seem to fail ?!?