dont get a kit without rims, it'll look totally stupid, and u'll get no "respect" wat so ever, which is what i think ull be wanting.
get kit and rims and suspension at the one time if possible. kit wise id go a do luck kit, with prolly some do luck rims if ur after look. then ull need it re-sprayed.
then exhaust, caus itll look ghey with a kit, rims, suspension with the stock exhaust.
then pod filter. boost controller & aftermarket computer. then some slotted rotors, good pads & decent fluid.
thats how i went with my R33, which ill tell u i had BEFORE i got my licence, and now im 19 and have an R32 gtr thats almost finished being built
oh, and dont go driving like u stole it, caus u being inexperienced WILL crash