hi there guys..
firstly, thank you so much for all of your contributions.. its really nice having a place to come and get some good advise when everybody around has run out of ideas... since the poor mechanic was starting to look a bit lost, i read some more faqs on here, listened to the advise, and spent the afternoon in his workshop.. i was going to do the whole earth wire mod, but after meatering the resistance between the pump and the body, i just didnt feel confident to screw around with it.. instead is dismantled and cleaned the afm and the aac valve..his scanner showed no faults until i cleaned the afm, at which point it said it was missing or faulty.. after checking the connections again, i gave the car a run, reset his scanner and then checked it again.. scanner showed up no faults so i've been driving it ever since... so far, fingers crossed and wood-a-knockin, the car seems to be running sweet and has no more stalling..
So again, thanks guys, and if any more probs arise, i'll re-post, but in the mean time hopefully we can call this one closed...
Cheers,
Damo