DESTRO I know its fun to go fast but seeing as you don't know much about cars, I would really focus on the styling make it look nice, the thing about wanting "the complete package" performance and looks is that they tend to clash. E.g. coil overs and body kit, great handling but kit tends to get bashed and battered. since this is going to be your first car and most likely going to be hassled by cops, go for the looks, lower with just springs (trying to keep the ride as smooth as possible) don’t go crazy with the mags, invest in a VERY good car alarm, and get some serious ice. Do most of it your self with help from forums like this one, and you will have fun driving and learning about your first car. And if you get a body kit learn to repair fibreglass and paint cos your first car will take a bit of punishment.