Thats the way i look at it now. When bad stuff happens to my car now, of course i get upset, but i look back and realise just how lucky i am to be having these problems... Unless its something fairly serious, i kinda blow it off now. I appreciate life so much more. October has taught me so much more about life. My mind has been opened so much.
The rest of the year was crap!! Breaking up with my girl after years, lotsa work hassles, lots of money hassles, car hassles, loss of license etc. Funnily enough it all means very little now.
The dreaded C word is one that i hate hearing. All the best to you, your grandad and your family nismogirl. Being strong and staying positive sounds good in theory, however it doesnt always work like that