i'm guessing the ecu is an aftermarket one and the fuel pump is a stocker.
upgrading the fuel system with a better pump, regulator and injectors would be a good idea to make sure the engine has good fuel supply when pushing over 200rwkw because thats about where the stock rb20 fuel system starts to run out.
i just rebuilt my rb20 with forged pistons, i cant remember exactly what everything cost but i'v got a fair idea.
arias forged pistons 20thou up $1100
machining of the block to suit pistons $550
genuine bearings $250
genuine head gasket $150
genuine head studs $100
aftermarket manifold gaskets etc. ~$60
labor for assembly of engine $150, that was only for the bottom end i put the rest together myself.
that seems like a lot but at least you'll have a fresh bottom end that will withstand the mid 200rwkw mark with a bit of abuse.
Aaron