I certainly wouldn't agree with laziness John, sorry.
I used to live in a house and I used to wash and polish my car every week. Now with water restrictions up to level 4 and the fact I now live in an apartment as opposed to a house, does this mean I'm now a lazy car owner?? (BTW I still manage to get it washed or I wash it very regularly)
If I have the money and I choose to have it washed by someone else because I literally cannot do it myself at home any more, its really not for anyone else to have an opinion on because its my business.
If a person chooses NOT to wash their car at all, why should you care?
/end rant