i'm all for bros before hoes, but if you're seeing her, and if it's just drinks with your mates, then you should be making an exception. you can have drinks with them whenever, you can only go to a formal with her once.... unless she or you are retarded enough to repeat the grade. which is totally possible.
in other news, bought some factory Xenons for the golf from japan.
secondhand price from US/UK/Europe: $1500 - $2000 due to VW modders' version of takumi tax
secondhand price from JP: $500 shipped
love it, these muppets on VW forums are sooo wrapped up in their little ebay and forum world they just don't seem to think outside the square.