try leaving your key on ignition than put the new fuse in, than turn the key. I had a similar issue with my old car (rolla) once,
i blew the fuse after dropping the ratchet on an exposed connection on the alternator while changing the spark plugs, sparks everywhere, scared the shit out of me.
i replace the fuse, than as soon as i start it the fuse goes, took it to mechanic and he put the key in ignition and than put the fuse in, car started fine