judd,
I can drive ok but, 2.1 60ft isn't world beating.
My car is just faster fullstop. The meeting before I had ran a best of 13.8, without the lightened flywheel and with over 100kgs in the boot (work stuff). On the meet of the 13.4 I ran several 13.5's making the car very consistant.
I have seen many a car (not just skylines) poorly setup, with more performance gear than you can poke a stick at and they run slower than even some completely stock vehicles.
Matching each component to the purpose is the best approach to going quicker. I'd say your mates vehicles are victims.
I have tried to set up my car with 'efficiency' style mods that compliment the broad power band of the stock setup and provide time saving through faster build up of revs and spooling on the turbo, something a dyno does not measure (yes there are performance aspects a dyno doesn't measure).
Geez if I had 265's I may have already got a 12.
BTW, ask Rhino what to do to your 'R' to get a 12.4.