You did not have any work done by them, you just asked for the code and they said no, and they told you to call motec. Like i said before if motec wanted you to have the map they could have given you there back door password to keep the map on the ecu, and if the tunner knows what he is doing he would not want to start with someone else map and would not take too much time to do a new one.
I might be wrong but on another forum you said the wastgate had a hole in it, so the car was over boosting and blew, then rebuilt and dynoed, after it started over heating, and the tunner and the engine builder were blaming each other, you then draged the engine builder through the mud on the forum which he come on and defend him self, then said you were getting it built in syd and selling the car.
Apart from not giving you the code i can not see what 101 did wrong, and motec did the same thing, they showed you how to wipe the map but did not give you the password to access the map that was on the ecu.
So it comes down to you have had no work done by 101, but bag the shit out of them, you your self said they did not ask you for $1000 but your friends who called said it would cost $1000, dont you think if they wanted $1000 for the code they would ask the owner of the car for the money not there friends, on another forum you were asking users to call them and take up there time, call them over and over, do skids up and down the street and to call them on a pay phone and leave the line open so they get no phone calls. All for a code that motec could have gave you but chose not to, think about it