Holy heck, your kidding right. Apologies for my rough edge, but there is plenty, oodles, mountains of information in previous threads that will easily answer your much much much much too common question. To the point that someone will just lash out and say "do a search".....as I'm guilty of in the past, but had good reason to.
Anyways, to the point.
Turbo: HKS 2535,
Or if your willing to try out a hybrid Garrett GT2871R or GT3071R converted to be a direct bolt on for RB20/25 try here http://www.horsepowerinabox.com/hpiab2/category12_1.htm
(I'm keen to see how these turbo's in particular size up.....wanna try it for me? haha kidding)
ECU: E-Manage ultimate would do you fine they're roughly $900ish, or for a tad more a PFC can be had for $1100ish $1200ish 2nd hand and its plug in.
Or you could just get a remap done, but for me I've found having a tunable ECU an advantage as the tune can be touched up upon request without the need of re-flashing etc etc. Remaps are generally worth $5-600 odd....sometimes less.....once you find someone to do it.
If you don't already have one you'll need a Z32 AFM.....$250.
Injectors: 550cc's would do you easily, but for not all that much more 740cc can be had for almost the same price. $1000.....they used to be $700 tops, but the outhouse exchange rates are really killing atm. http://www.skylinesaustralia.com/forums/In...amp;hl=injector
Fuel Pump: Tomei or Nismo, both drop straight in and you can't go wrong....anywhere. If you do there's something wrong with you.
Or go Walbro if you like a little bit of mucking around to fit it, but is cheaper.
Tomei $499
Nismo $495
Walbro $195 but its a universal fit, not model specific.
http://www.skylinesaustralia.com/forums/Wa...ss-t217788.html
http://www.skylinesaustralia.com/forums/To...op-t189343.html
http://www.skylinesaustralia.com/forums/Ni...op-t172031.html
Everything used to be cheaper, but like I said....outhouse exchange rates. So this above may have blown your budget.
There you go, officially spoon fed.