this is heading on its way to Lost Cause Station.
Its simple.
Either Sl33ky and the other person put up and start acting even half professional - or you simply write them off as a bad trade. Be it put it in your Sig, Put it in your Trade info or whatever.
I have nothing to do with this, however this is starting to dribble on like shit.
You either act professional about it, start giving a damn about these people rather than post your life story that lacks punctuation or paragraphs.
You might not have been the original problem creator, but you've obviously led these people on enough to make yourself part of the problem.
As it is, you have managed to piss a bunch of people off - the only way to even remotely save face is to start putting your money where your mouth is.
Your choice, fix the f**king problem or have a terrible irreparable reputation on these forums. There is no middle ground.