I don;t know who you 2 been talking to.
I don't classify myself as doing SFA when there work to be done I get it done.
And get paid to match that.
The only hit to my social life is when I have to travel for work.
and in reality that only impacts my AU social life.
hell worked paid for me to hit, Nurburgring, ocktoberfest, goodwood fest of speed, Mustang convertible thought the desert,
oh and paid for me to get to this but I had to pay for the rental of this little toy.
it's up to the person to set their work life balance. and just cos you hit some magical number do not mean you ahve to give up other things.
hell when I was earning 42K early on was prob the biggest impact on my social life.
shift work, and at one point 7 days a week for 3 months 15-16 hours a day.