A few points:
Dont bother writing unless you have had a spotless record for 10 years.
If you think she was rude, then you have the right to complain but it wont get you out of the ticket. It is a completely different matter.
It is an offence to go through either a red or an amber light.
If the car was a HWP car you are stuffed. It is on video.
Like Rukus said, you took a calculated risk and it didnt pay off. Suck it up and put it down as a learning experience. Life isnt about looking for loopholes. You just got caught...plain and simple/