Gatty,
You're definately better off selling your car and buying a turbo model instead - if you're after more power.
I justified doing the swap on mine (to the RB25DET) because I like the R32 and it never came out with the RB25DET... Here are some rough figures on what it has cost me to do the conversion:
$4000 - 5 stud conversion with GTSt Type M brakes, R200 LSD, and 17" Wheels
$4000 - Series 2 RB25DET engine/ ecu swap, CES twin dump pipe, Apexi Pod filter, R34 GTt intercooler, and turbo timer.
Both the figures above included labour...
$8000 is a fair amount of money to make your car the equal to a R33 GTSt, as you can probably work out - selling (or trading) the car is the smartest option. Putting NOS on you car is also silly, considering it's illegal to drive on the streets with it hooked up, and in time it will wear out you engine.
Ryno