problem solved, must have been the exhaust cam causing the whole problem. Last year when working on the engine, the exhaust cam broke in two pieces, got a used one from a friend of mine. Anyways, recently ordered and installed a new set of tomei poncams, and suddenly problem solved! I can't really figure out what the problem was with the used cam I got from my friend, can't see anything wrong with it. have you guys got any ideas?
Going to the dyno at the end of this month, with my new tomei poncams, greddy plenum and GT3582R turbo, hoping to get a better result than last year, hehe..