Well thanks everyone for your help. Im doing the thing and finding out for myself, will post information as soon as it's done and i've finished having fun with it. From what i have learnt so far, (rb25det turbo on rb20det) run the line from the wastegate to where your boost guage plugs in at the back of the manifold to save tapping into your intercooler pipes. To keep your boost guage just put a T- piece in there. You will need the rb25 lower intercooler pipe cuz the rb20 one won't bolt straight up. I think i may need a different thread size for the water piping but i'll get into it when i get up to it and last but not least, rusty bolts are a real bitch, expect to break a few.
Part 2 coming soon.
Jayson
ps. by the way, i went for the 25 turbo as my car is sluggish off the start as it is and putting a vg30det turbo on there would of made it worse.