So basically, your telling me, with correct setup ie. making sure AFRs are correct, bigger injectors, fuel pump, exhaust, cooler etc etc etc. AND a very good tune, that boost wont effect the engine?
This is how I interperet what you are saying:
Car A with the correct setup and a good tune running 20 PSI, compared to car B that also has the correct supporting mods however running only 15 PSI, will last as long and be just as reliable as car B. That doesn't seem right to me.
Moreover, you stated that "Abnormally high combustion pressures and temperatures that kills motors". Now, what do you think happens when you increase your boost?
I'll tell you what happens:
1) Turbo spins faster since it needs to create more pressure (eg, winding up boost from 15 to 20 PSI), and due to the faster spinning motion, it creates heat, which is transfered to the intake mainfold. Hence, engine temps will increase.
2) Since the turbo is creating more pressure and is directing that pressure to the engine, there will be higher combustion pressure.
Thus, your statement is contradictory. "Abnormally high combustion pressures and temperatures that kills motors... Not boost. "
Increasing boost CAUSES these things to happen, no matter HOW good your tune is.
Furthermore, when I wind up the boost, I noticed an increase in water temps on the Power FC.
So, in conclusion, yes, boost DOES and CAN kill your engine.