austinmer beach is a pretty good place for us i rekn.
only issue which Paul raised would be parking space.
its about 10-15 minutes from wollongong CBD.
i havnt been there for a couple of years but my brother says its still in good shape.
we could also Maybe go to Shell Harbour as polak said --> lots of parking!
i think the park/reserve type cruise is a great idea. good way to spend the day and celebrate Jeffs B'day!
heres some more options..
Killalea Beach
Shell Harbour Beach North
Stanwell Park Beach
all three have bbq facilities, picnic areas, kiosk, car park + the rest we need.