i see what your sayin man, i really do..
but my mum hasnt ever tryed to stop him finding me, our number has always been in the phone book
and his new wife is still in touch with my aunty, and i still have his last name!!
he has had plenty of avenues to get in touch with me, theres obviously a reason why he
hasnt that im not aware of, so ill leave it at that...
i have my own little family to worry about now.