Markos:
I was more frustrated at you putting up video after video of your lifters, while telling everyone else that they won't get to this level, combined with your often vague or confusing responses to questions - I think the regulars here all know your credentials with the results that you get from people, and it's why I specifically ask YOU for advice over the millions of fitness blogs, forum threads etc.
I know that effort is number 1, all I'm trying to find out is if with my crappy deadlift vs bench and squat, which variant would be more effective for me to get better at deadlifting, rather than potentially wasting time.
I'm not after a magic program or anything, and why would I blame you for myself failing? That would be stupidity, and I don't intend to fail.
rev:yeah I hear you, but I literally don't have any options other than regular gym training.