the lights have had a sand and polish not too long ago, spend 30mins on yours and they should come up the same.
The cooler does fit pretty neat in there, if a GTR core was used i dont think there would be any need to cut the indicator mounts either... I was thinking 400R skirts the other day just to keep the height even around the car, but im not too fussed about that at the moment.
As for where to find the bar, just keep an eye out. I found one about 8 months ago but was too late and it was gone before I could get to it, this has been the first one Ive found since then.....