hey dude,
as everyone else has mentioned already, the Garrett GT30R (with A/R .82 exhaust housing) will give the power you need while being usable and not too aggressive but it won't happen at 16psi, maybe closer to 21-22psi.
although, if you are building a good engine (rb26 crank, rods, forgies, etc), why are you aiming to run lower boost when the engine could comfortably handle the higher boost required?
also, if it is imperative that you run lower boost, you can look at increasing the volumetric efficiency of the engine by running higher compression than standard (~9.0:1), head porting along with decent sized cams.
these 3 things alone will create the power you require and at lower boost.
one more thing, the TD06-25G sitting in my garage would work quite nicely with this engine and your current manifold, etc