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Thanks Nick, yeah we live a fairly clean life. No smoking, drugs and we cook our own food most nights. We are quite active with sports and rec too. Yes she does need more hobbies on her own now that I think about it, so thanks for that. Lastly to all those people that mentioned the pill. That was like a lightbulb going off! I remember years ago when we were first going out and we tried to solve the severe mood swings the doctors advised to change the type of pill. We did try a few different ones, but frustration set in after definite hormonal changes kicked in and she got fed up and went back to the original. Wow forgot about that. I think it's time to bring that subject up again.

Been another rollacoaster few weeks. Fricking cried my eyes out for the first time in over 10 years a few weeks back. Sooked like a baby. Couldn't believe it. Well it was either that or hurt her. I'm a happy guy, always thinking positive, loving life and that and I think my body just broke down from just the thoughts that were going through my head. Like how did I get here. Not good. To answer some questions. Yeah she's hot, she used to model partime. No your not getting pics Slim. Yes I love her madly! No it's not Liz. No alcohol, we both were never big drinkers, but it made it worse x10. I'm talking cops, punchups, getting kicked out of clubs, nope we avoid any boozey nights now. No she's not cheating. Terry your posts are interesting and hitting the mark, I need to look into them more. It's like she's missing the tolerance factor. I'll PM you if you don't mind. No I don't want to get rid of her. I want it to be better. Of course I would tell myself to to get the heck out of there too, so thanks for the advice. But I actually do see a future and it is very bright, if we can just stop wasting time and get there. Yes she does have her good(FANTASTIC) qualities as well of course that's why I am with her. She has so many talents, she still surprises me sometimes and her genuine smile makes me melt. MBS206, NZM031, FIGJAM, Matboy, thanks so much for sharing your stories, best of luck to each. R34KID, spot on with everything you said, that's sounds exactly like what I'm going through and exactly how I feel. I'm always trying to turn 10 to 90 and 90 to 10, I've said that so many times in my head. I too copped the auto violence! Started kicking the shit out the car, and I almost got arrested for restraining her.

Just wanted to say that I am truely overwhelmed and humbled with the outpouring of help from all you guys. You don't know what it means to me. That's why I love this club! It's very hard for me to even talk about these things with friends let alone random somewhat strangers, but thanks to all.

I won't go into details but it's like not normal angry.Like going from 0-200 in 5sec. From anything. So many times in one day every day. Sometimes violent. We don't have any specific issues, other people might say we lead great lives. I've even got her to do scans and see a neuro to see if there was something wrong, but nothing thank God.

Many many thanks for responding Black Widow. Yes we went to them for a few months as well, it wasn't for us, but i have called them just now for an updated timetable of courses in case it's changed. It's hard to believe in a way that there aren't many female tailored anger management classes which makes it harder. Anyone been to or have real experience with one of these classes? Do they actually help? I just want to move forward with our lives.

Long time member here, i've created a dummy account in the hopes that one of my fellow liners can help, dont really want to air my dirty laundry, but I need to do something. Problem is my girlfriend is an angry person. Been together now for almost 6 years always been like this, always thinking it will get better. Never does, she needs help. Every day is a battle with the flak coming from one side, it's real bad. I was wanting to get feedback if anyone has any real good conselling services for this sort of thing. Been to a few already,problem is she's cluey and can manipulate the person into thinking it's my fault. She does know she needs help but she runs. Any places I can call for support, I don't know what to do and I am losing a bit of my soul everyday.