The factory BOV has the small hole in it which allows a small constant recirculating leak to the front of the compressor already. This seems to soften the opening of the BOV when there is light throttle comp surge.
Aftermarket BOV's seem prone to opening and shutting quickly when the pressure wave cracks them open. Lighter spring settings seem to reduce the alternating open shut cycle but there still might be something in the tune to help. Possibly by moving the peak cylinder pressures around ATDC might change the amount of still combusting exhaust gas making its way out of the exhaust valve.
With regards to fueling, if the tuner is sitting on the plateau of best leanest power (most economical edge of that plateau) or best richest (most responsive edge) perhaps moving it one way or the other might eliminate surge. I am guessing if you run a bit more advance in the cells around the 3200rpm on the current fueling levels (assuming it is not knock inducing) might get the job done but also going a whisker leaner but a little less advance might help.
Reducing later cycle combustion at that point might slightly reduce the energy acting on the turbine for a few 100rpm.