with the kids its easier to go for lunch or like monday or tuesday dinner when its quieter.
yeah ended up needing a new photographer in the end all the rest of the vendors pulled strings or were already free so just swapped.
hard part was finding another photographer with the same deal. album, negatives, proof book, pre wedding shoot for a signable poster at the reception, dvd slide show to music and 5 large prints. we pay for any other prints at normal price etc, he shoots me getting ready, hel getting ready, the ceremony 2 hours for pictures, then he stays for the whole reception.
got all that for 2k. new guy we are still working out the specifics with but atleast hes booked and want be to much more $$