We generally meet up on Friday nights here:
http://maps.google.com.au/maps?f=d&sou...008256&z=18
In the carpark parallel to the lake on that "Menindee Dr" road. There's a thread labeled "Friday night NOT at museum" here, people generally post in there when they're heading out. Meet time is usually 9:30 onwards.
Otherwise we occasionally do other things like dinners and whatnot...sometimes we go for a cruise randomly, but I think most people couldn't be stuffed as there's a lot of other wankers in their commonwhores, WRX's, Lexus (Lexii?), and Beamers who give other drivers on the road a bad name and bring attention.
On the note of your car, I reckon it wouldn't look too bad at all if you removed the wing completely, then got yourself some new rims - say, R34 GT-R rims. Perhaps even sprayed black. Would look pretty sweet then