Hey mate,
Ok, I'll start with what I know for sure. Number 3 looks like the hose for the IAC valve. Which would explain why the bov did not work, because once the car is warmed up, that hose is blocked from the plenum and essentially does nothing. So that would work exactly as it would if you teed into any other pre-throttle body source.
Number 2 is a bit confusing. That looks like factory plumbing, but the bov should be plumbed into a source AFTER the throttle body. Plumbing it in before hand would serve no purpose, the bov would not function. So not sure why it's been done like that unless again, I can't see something. It's different to the RB25 setup so I can't compare.
Number 1 looks like it should work, but I can't see where the port below it is going so it may not. For science sake, try tapping into a line that you know is working AND gets it's vacuum source from after the throttle body. The fuel pressure reg for instance.