note to all. phones now have date stamp options. make sure this is on for the photos!!! date and time stamped photos are very difficult to dispute for insurance companies.
police report is your legal responsibility and you must fill one out. If the other party doesnt then things are weighted even futher in your favour!
If you dont have full comp then you will need to wait until her insurance company instructs you to take it to their approved repairers. In the mean time get your car inspected by places your comfortable so you have 3 quotes to go back them with if you dont like their repairers.