Further to this, even the relay won't last long with a Walbro 460L, I have seen many drawing over 30 amps, blowing fuses and melting relays and tank lids. The issue isn't the pump, or the wiring. I suspect the relays don't get enough voltage to pull in the contacts hard, hence the current spikes as the voltage drops due to the bad relay contacts. Some last days, some months.
A solid state relay would fix it, but you lose 0.7V over the output switch. Probably best to run a solid state relay to power the coil of the 70 amp power relay, that way you can be sure the 70 amp relay is getting the full 13V it requires to energise properly, without affecting it's ecu controlled operation.