I found the problem... I put male female plugs on the unit 1st like it says to and the ECU already male female plugs on it so i just plugged them into what was there n cable tapped the others but whatever was in the car 1st had the plugs on backward to the manual so i had the yellow and white wire the wrong way.. All sweet and working now so now off to Protek for a tune....
Thanks heaps guys