thanks guys, for the updates... the battery and starter/alternator is one of the first things i checked out aswell since thats what i thought it was in the beginning, some guy checked them with some stick thingy lol and said they were fine and it was "charging properly" then he was like "i dont know much about jap cars, take it to some jap place" so i was like okay cool..... lol
i changed my AFM, cleaned AAC, changed fuel pump and fuel filter.. now i was hitting constant boost while driving home one day and it cut out again, this time cos i was on a main road and by myself i just left hazards on while waiting for a lift to help me out cos usually like i said, if i let it cool down for a good 20 mins - sometimes an hour i can start it up again.. but this time it just completely died on me, so the hazard lights eventually let my car to die, some random came and jump started me and i was able to get home fine.
i can drive the car fine, as long as i dont hit constant boost other wise it will cut out. im gonna try look into buying another alternator and see how that goes, if all else fails, ill try a new battery, umm im gonna also unblock my BOV and just put a proper gasket with a hole in it instead of the plate i have. just a thought.