xALmon - I feel more of my time is needed to add to this growing thread (and the growing concerns I have).
In no way am I trying to tell anybody what to do. I just felt the necessity to bring basic parental responsibilities to the attention of the thread starter, in this case hamiltonau.
If you wish to describe myself as having large amounts of commitment, well I am fine with this. You may be wrong, you may be right. At the end of the day it is your opinion and being able to freely discuss this on a public forum is fantastic.
However I am somewhat confused to the reasoning behind you trying to do this in a second language when previous posts clearly show you are far from competent in that said language.
Maybe that discussion should be left for another time ...?
hamiltonau - Please accept my sincerest and humblest of apologies. I feel nothing but guilt knowing that my opinion nearly brought you to the point of exploding with rage/indignation.
I agree that the topic titled "the best way of raising a child" would be on a completely different forum and yes most probably not on a forum about modifying cars.
I would also like you to reconsider you image of me being a "self important dick" . How can one regular forum goer (xALmon) describe me as being a hero with loads of commitment and passion, yet you cannot?
I unfortunately still feel you don't fully understand your responsibilities of being a parent. Just because your ex wife owes you money this does not mean you should threaten her by suggesting you would withhold child support payments. After all this money is for your son isn't it? Sounds like you have everything on the right track though (no pun intended )
Can I also suggest before making comments in future posts / threads you think about what it is you are typing and how this may make you look. The picture you painted of yourself with certain comments made you look like a first class loser of a man / father.
I am happy you have been able to move on with "the business at hand", that being the modification of your car.
Lastly, if at all possible could you please help me out with all my spelling errors? In return I will help you out with missing words, spelling, grammar, word choices, general life coaching, understanding and handling criticism, anger management and ways to channel this to find inner peace.
Thankyou